3 Simple Ways To Have An Awesome Half Term With The Kids

Are you spending half term at home with your children?  Do you have that sense of optimism that you are all going to have a great time together enjoying each other’s company?  I love the thought of spending time at home with my family but by the end of the holiday I can literally be counting down the hours before we are back into the school routine.  When that feeling has taken over me, I know that my half term planning hasn’t gone so well and the dreaded Mum guilt can starts to take hold of me.

It’s a feeling I hate to be honest, and I have tried to avoid the half term emotional rollercoaster ride for many years now.   It’s nice to be able to look forward to your family time, and when it’s over to feel sad it’s coming to an end, but how do we reach this parenting utopia.  It’s taken me a while to figure it out, but I’ve come to realise that these 3 simple tips I’ve learnt from our travels make a massive difference to how well the half term holiday at home goes too, and I’m confident they will make a big difference to your family time as well.

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Make A Plan

Children like routine and can miss the structure of school.  Sit down together as a family and make a rough plan of how you are going to spend the week together.  Daily plans can be helpful too as it gives you the flexibility to change things if something crops up or the weather isn’t on your side.  Having something to look forward to each day will help keep everyone in the half term holiday mood as well as giving a sense of structure at the same time.  It doesn’t need planning down to the nth degree but a simple outline of things that will happen like going swimming, a picnic in the park or going to the cinema will keep you all in the holiday mood.

Be Present

You may be taking some time off work to be home with the children for half term or perhaps you are a stay at home parent.  Which ever it is, keep your focus on spending time with the children as much as possible and worry less about the household jobs or the to do list that never seems to be finished.  There are always going to be jobs that need to happen, but perhaps you could arrange for the kids to have a play date, and use this time to work through them instead of trying to juggle keeping the kids happy with the hoovering.

3 Simple Ways To Have An Awesome Half Term With The Kids

Allow For Some Personal Space

Families are great aren’t they, but sometimes spending time together can become a bit much.  The quickest way for tempers to become frayed in our house is when we’ve been in each other’s pockets for to long.  I find there are a few things that can help to stop everyone getting on each other’s nerves.  Encouraging children to do activities alone is helpful like arts and crafts or activities.  In our house, finding ways to spend time with just one child can help, so Daddy will play with little pudding at home and I’ll take princess out to the park.  It’s not always an easy thing to achieve, but if you can work it into the week it can stop tempers from fraying.

A holiday is a holiday whether you are at home or are going away.  These ideas are based on taking the holiday mindset and using it to spend quality time with your children whenever you are together.  I hope they help you all enjoy your half term as quality time at home is what really makes for a happy family.

29 Comments

  1. MARGARET gallagher
    May 29, 2017 / 12:01 am

    Great advice
    So easy to get bogged down and forget ABOUT having fun

  2. Rachel Butler
    May 29, 2017 / 9:25 am

    Great tips! I totally agree with the personal space! It can be super hard sometimes being all together…..my son is a total gamer though, so he likes to spend time playing his games so it gives me time to enjoy a coffee or two. xoxo

  3. Richard
    May 29, 2017 / 9:41 am

    I don’t have kids but I have a young brother. I’m kinda often busy at work but when I can arrange my stuff, I always spend most of the time to play with him. I just think having fun with family and let everyone feel cares from each other are the greatest things ever!

  4. Leila Benhamida
    May 29, 2017 / 2:46 pm

    Great ideas. I always plan for the holiday and get to do something different but with a day of rest in between.

  5. Lorna Ledger
    May 29, 2017 / 5:29 pm

    Have fun! Work within your budget! And hope for nice weather 😉 x

  6. May 29, 2017 / 5:43 pm

    I have been looking forward to half term for ages. I’ve already blown the budget 🙂

  7. Sarah Cooper
    May 30, 2017 / 8:37 am

    Some great tips here to make the most of the half-term holidays.

  8. May 30, 2017 / 9:46 am

    Great advice Zena, although we cannot do much this holiday due to the surgery I had on my spine, we have made a list of one activity we can do together so that Grace has something to look forward to x
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  9. May 30, 2017 / 10:13 am

    Allowing to spend some time for some space is really a nice tip. As much as we would want to be together, this idea is needed by everyone.

  10. May 30, 2017 / 12:01 pm

    Some really good advice and I had forgotten it was half term until I got the bus to work this morning x

  11. Viki Marden
    May 30, 2017 / 8:11 pm

    These are perfect, I have made a couple of plans and tried to make as much time for my daughter as she starts full time school in September so I want to soak her in.

  12. May 30, 2017 / 8:57 pm

    Some great tips I’m a stay at home mum and struggle to stay present due to house work etc and its something i need to work on more as my son won’t be little forever.

  13. May 30, 2017 / 9:33 pm

    I think being present is the most important thing, it flies by anyway and for me I feel like it is important to spend that time with them. That being said, this half term we are decorating the house so we are all going to be inside painting for a lot of the time.
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  14. May 31, 2017 / 6:23 am

    Really great tips here. Planning is so important. I feel a bit sad that I am working most of it and the kids aren’t doing much but sometimes it is nice for them to just chill after a busy term.
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  15. May 31, 2017 / 8:09 am

    We have planned days out almost every day as my kids love being outside and go stir crazy if kept inside. We do have some rabbits to look after too which they are loving
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  16. May 31, 2017 / 11:53 am

    I agree with the feeling of being in each others pockets! I am an only child so quite enjoy my own time every now and again!

  17. Sam
    May 31, 2017 / 2:30 pm

    I shared this post with some ladies at work who have children and they loved it!

  18. Sandeep
    June 1, 2017 / 12:23 pm

    Fantastic article for anyone with kids. Spending quality time with them can make you both real happy. They’re gonna remember this forever. Planning is really important before the vacation. You don’t want to sit around planning and wasting the time after the kids come in. Being in the present moment is also incredibly important. You got to enjoy every moment with your kids.

  19. June 1, 2017 / 12:27 pm

    We had planned to go to a donkey derby on Monday for Matt’s birthday but it was cancelled and I only found out at the last minute. Luckily he wasn’t too disappointed. We have 2 inset days next week so are planning on doing something then when attractions are less busy
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  20. June 1, 2017 / 12:41 pm

    These are some great tips! I can imagine it can be a handful dealing with many children under one roof once the half term hits the spin hah x

  21. June 1, 2017 / 10:47 pm

    My friend and I we were talking about the mum guilt today, as nothing goes to plan, need to show her this post, you are advice are very good. x

  22. June 1, 2017 / 11:40 pm

    I love my son but half term and bank holidays scare me bcos he’s just like an enigizer bunny that doesn’t stop. By 2pm I’m shattered. Being present is SO important.
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  23. karen hill
    June 8, 2017 / 3:55 pm

    Had tons of fun with our little one, lots f crafts and luckily the weather was nice so we got out quite a bit, looks like you guys had fun x

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